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I. Allen's avatar

Sherry, I love this reflection about the deeper nature of manners. The way in which our consciousness of others' worth guides our actions, and how often this culminates in small acts that have larger impact. Cleaning up after ourselves, using language that reflects holiness, and building a life that reflects an understanding of how we fit into the broader fabric of a kingdom. The only caveat I would add, which came to mind, was to what degree people are losing manners not out of moral scarcity, or even poor conditioning, and more out of seeking to cope.

Often, when the demands of life outweigh our cognitive and emotional reserves, it seems that we may well be brought to a state of thoughtlessness to the lives of others. As the mental health crisis in our country increases, with anxiety, depression and loneliness on the rise, I can't help but wonder if people just lose sight of one another. I say this not to say that it is excusable, but rather, perhaps it is one element of the shift that is explainable. Perhaps it is symptomatic of a deeper scarcity in our culture.

A thought. As always, I love your writing and look forward to your words in my inbox!

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Hovanky's avatar

Damn this really hit home. Thanks

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